Some rather surprising findings that challenge prevalent perceptions on infidelity emerged from a study carried out by the Andrological Institute. According to the study, which lasted for 2 years and surveyed 2,000 couples, women are nearly as equally prone to ‘hanky panky’ as men. 78% of women asked said they would fool around outside their relationship, compared to 84% of men. The survey listed 10 key factors for female infidelity:
- Women are the ones that actually choose who they will go to bed with.
- If you are men, beware of your partner’s ovulation! She is ‘biologically’ ready to cheat due to her natural sexual drive. At that point she wants to procreate and have sex.
- Women do not cheat, they leave for good. They prepare their move a long time in advance. Men are always ready to return to the bosom of the mom/partner/lover.
- Female infidelity is not superficial. It is a calculated, well-thought out move. Females think only with their ‘heads’, whereas males…That’s why men are inconsolable when they find out their partner had sex with another man.
- Men feel emasculated by their partner’s infidelity, which they consider the end of the world. while seeing their fooling around as innocent and somewhat ‘natural’.
- Infidelity on the part of woman is a way of punishing a lackluster lover that doubted her ‘divine nature’.
- A woman cheating sends a double message. I punish you because you were a bad boy, but come back because you are useful for other things.
- Female infidelity has two ‘parents’. The ‘mother’ is ‘sexual wit’ and the ‘father’ is eroticism, while for the infidelity is without ‘parents.
- Female infidelity is usually passionate and unmediated, while for men it is a poor replica of his vain male nature.
- If gender infidelity could be marked men would fail, while females would pass with flying colours!