One exasperated toddler told her dad off for one of the biggest male crimes – not putting the toilet seat down ‘for the girls’. Bossy Bradlee Rae Hayes was up to here with father Jeremiah leaving the seat up in the bathroom. Giving him a piece of her mind, the confident three-year-old said: “How many times do I have to tell you when you put the seat up and I tell you to put it down?