“This beautiful woman is celebrating her birthday today,” the actor wrote in the caption of his Instagram post, sharing a smiling photo of Wilson just after a dip in the sea during their vacation. “She is loved by her husband,” Hanks added, closing with: “Happy Birthday!”
Tom Hanks and Rita Wilson have been married since 1988 and have two sons: Chester “Chet” Marlon Hanks, 35, and Truman Theodore Hanks, 29. Hanks also has two children from his previous marriage to Samantha Lewes: Colin Hanks, 47, and Elizabeth Hanks, 43.

The couple first met in 1981 on the set of the TV series Bosom Buddies, where they immediately formed a close friendship that later blossomed into a relationship. Their first public appearance together on the red carpet was in 1986.
In a 2001 interview with Oprah Winfrey, Tom Hanks spoke openly about their marriage: “The success of our relationship comes down to timing, maturity, and our willingness to have a deep, honest connection. When I married Rita, I thought, ‘This will require some changes on my part.’ I won’t deny that luck played a role in bringing us together, but our relationship isn’t magical like in the movies.”
He added: “In real life, our connection is tangible. Not that marriage doesn’t sometimes go through…fires. But we both know that no matter what, we’ll stay together and get through it.”
Over the years, they have never stopped publicly expressing their love for each other. When Tom Hanks turned 67 in 2023, Rita Wilson posted a heartfelt Instagram tribute, calling him her “best friend.” “Happy Birthday to this man who is my partner, my best friend, my family, the father of my children,” she wrote alongside a photo of the actor. “He’s one of the smartest people I know, makes me laugh every day for 38 years, and can fall asleep anywhere, anytime! Happy Birthday, my love!”
Last May, to mark their 37th wedding anniversary, Hanks shared another vacation photo, simply captioned: “37 years of marriage. Today! I love you, Mrs.”
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